Chapter
1
You Must Be Rich
I
vividly remember sharing about purchasing our new house with cash
and
someone responded “you must be rich”.
I
am not a professional writer, or a financial adviser. All I am able
to do is tell you our story. I am going to tell this in a series of posts, which I hope you will enjoy following. This will be our true story, from start to finish (hopefully) of our "Home, Debt-Free, Home".
Many
people dream of owning their own "Home, Sweet, Home" or piece of land for a farm. It
still is the American dream for many. Especially
for those of us who desire a more
self-sufficient
style of living. Sadly, that dream seems unattainable to a growing
number of people.
The
last few years has been interesting for my husband and I, we decided
to get out of debt and stay out of debt. At the same time we decided
we were going
to purchase our retirement home, a little homestead in the county. We
were striving for as much self-sufficiency as possible and the
goal was to
all of this with cash. At
the end of this journey we also wanted to be debt free.
Let's
set the stage. First my husband and I have been married for about 28
years. We started out in debt. His, not mine. I couldn't even get a
credit card.
Like
a lot of people we struggled to raise our family and pay our bills.
We couldn't seem to make ends meet without credit. Our cars were
financed. We put a lot of things on or credit cards, including to my
abject
horror
now; food. It boggles my mind how we rationalized paying for food in
a restaurant
on a credit card, which we didn't pay off each month which was
flushed down the toilet by the end of the next day.
Eventually,
we were able to finance a home. Note that I didn't say buy a home.
Most people assume when they get a loan to purchase a house, in their
minds they believe they own their own home. The reality is the bank
owns your home. Now
I want that to sink in the
bank owns your home. If
you don't believe that ask
the
many people who have had to move out of the banks property when they
hit financial difficulties and started missing payments. If
you have a mortgage payment you do not own your home.
Admittedly
this
was
ultimately
an
advantage we had, because though
over
the years the value of our home fluctuated we
have managed to always make the payment to the bank. What
helped is the economy has seemed to have rebounded and we developed
equity in our property.
We
both are college educated but have chosen blue collar jobs for it
fits into our personalities better. He works as a mechanic and a
weapons range master/instructor He has always worked at least two
jobs, plus did side work on vehicles and taught classes. I've have
done many things from working retail, I ran a little singing telegram
business, I have been a paid storyteller, a personal assistant and my
current job is as a perky barista at a fine purveyor of coffee.
Basically,
we were hard-working people with debt up to our eyeballs. Then a
friend had a conversation with us and handed us book that changed our
thinking entirely. We sat down and had a talk and decided that we had
to change our way of life before it was too late...
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Chapter 1: You Must Be Rich
CHALLENGE: What is it you really want and what are you willing to do to attain it?.
LESSON: A Beanie Baby is Not A Need
Chapter 2: Soul Crushing Debt
Chapter 3: 4 Keys to Find Cash and Make Your Money Work for You.
LESSON: A Beanie Baby is Not A Need
Chapter 2: Soul Crushing Debt
Chapter 3: 4 Keys to Find Cash and Make Your Money Work for You.